The time wasting/attraction building/comfort game

What you need : 2 Laptops, internet connection, creativity.

 

I get on a bus from Quetzaltenango to Lanquin, Guatemala.  It’s a 7 hour ride in a shuttle bus and I’m not looking forward to it.

When I step into the bus, im greeted with a nice sight, a cute, young 22-year-old Danish girl.  We start chatting and about an hour in, I invite her to play a game of cards, then after that I explain the rules of the next game we will play.

The Swap iPod game.

I set the scene for the first selection -

‘Its friday night and its around 9pm, you’ve had an amazing dinner with your family and you’re getting ready to go out to meet your friends.  You’re in your room and you put some music on… the song you play puts you in an amazing mood, your thinking about all the fun your going to have, about all the people your going to meet and your already smiling in anticipation. (Can anyone say NLP)

Now find the song on your Ipod that you would play, I’ll do the same and we will listen to each others selection.

I play

She plays

Next scenario is – Your driving along the highway in your car, its route 66 in the US, or the AP7 in Spain, a song comes on the radio that makes you want to dance, sing and tap your hands on the steering wheel.  A la John Candy in ‘Planes trains a automobiles’.

Mess Around

I play

She plays

Next round –  It’s Sunday morning, you wake up and put on your burgundy terry towling dressing gown and your brand new slippers.  You walk into the kitchen of your house, you check the refrigerator and pull out eggs, bacon, sausages and tomato.  You start cooking breakfast and you play this song, it makes you forget the slight hangover you have from last night.

Chateau Hampstead, Sunday.

I play -

She plays

Next round – A song on your Ipod that gives you goosepimples.

I play -

She plays

As you  can see, it goes on and on for another 20 rounds… we played this game for about 3 hours. every time the scenarios became more and more descriptive, with loads of NLP.  It was pretty awesome… By the time we got to the hostel, I had her wrapped around my little finger.

Alas it wasnt to be, the hostel I arrived at was full of mid 20′s drunken douchbags who were hell-bent on validating and supplying all the neccesary attention her mind needed.    But simply as a comfort tool, I think it’s amazingly good.

Pick your battles

Being polite  to women im not fucking, is my weakness…

Smelly morning farts are my strength…

 

Being tolerant  of Krauser and Jimmy’s terrible taste in music is a weakness

Touching jimmy around his plump midsection while making ‘rabble rabble rabble’ noises is my strength.

 
Nightclub pickup is my weakness,

Adventure dates are my strength…

 

Play to your strengths.

We all have our own…

Krauser’s is collecting eastern european souls and making them fall in love with him.

Jimmy’s is Nightgame, as much as he wouldn’t like to admit it.

Torero mops up tourists from outside buckingham palace.

Rocky picks up crazy russians and SDL’s them.

 

Mine (i believe)  is Date game, Once i get a girl onto a decent adventure date, I know its game over.  I’m about to write a post about a girl I picked up a few weeks ago, who I just had one of the best dates I’ve ever been on, just this week….

But you have to tailor my approach to the girl, this particular girl is a bit of an urban hippy, vegan, free-spirited, whatever you want to call it  she’s a solid ’8′, fucking gorgeous. we climbed a tree together, rode around the park and looked at the animals, total date cost?  Around £2   …. The tree was the highlight for her, just doing that made her pussy sing, I could actually hear it yelling out….

“HEY!! TOE!!  DOWN HERE!! HEY, HEY!! IM RIGHT HERE, COME VISIT, SAY HELLO!!”

I’ll put the whole breakdown of the date up soon….

I wouldn’t take a lawyer, or a posh bird (who I don’t really want to date anyway) up a tree for a date.  I’ll take her somewhere I can show value. Like a bar where the staff know my name…

If she’s a young student, ill take her to something interesting happening around town… not to a dive bar, Places that I think she will not have seen before.

But if I get a slightly quirky, young adventurous girl out for a date… (exactly my type) then she is going on Toe’s magical mystery adventure tour. (post to follow)

I don’t want to do hours in a club, competing against loads of LSS chodes fighting over a bunch of 7′s dressed as 9′s.

Fuck that noise.

Role playing

I love role-playing, I do it in almost every set ive ever worked, from guessing what other people in the bar are doing in their lives, to the long, drawn out future projections.  It’s all fun, and it builds massive attraction.

This is a message chain from last year, from an online dating site,

The girl was really cute, a norwegian 8.

 

She looked at my profile, but didn’t say hello.

 

 

Hmmm… your not going to just look at my profile and not say hello….

 

What your basically saying is that im just a piece of meat.. to be ogled at.

 

I can’t believe it!

 

Big-Toe

 

Nov. 15, 2010 – 7:39pm

Sorry, I didn’t mean to make you feel like a piece of meat to be ogled at.

 

Actually, I was going to ask you if you mind extreme vegan girls with a stalking history that wants a leg up in the

fashion industry..

but then I read the last part of your profile. So now I’m left cold and lonely (again) humming my racist rhymes in my

dark manly voice while spanking myself.

 

Such a shame you feel you need to have high standards. We could have been great together.

 

L

 

Nov. 15, 2010 – 7:57pm

So… A slightly crazy Swede/Fin/Dane/Norse girl who is either the strangest girl i’ve ever come across, or a girl, who

is so fucking cool, i wont know what hit me.

 

Help me figure out which one it is….

 

3 questions.

 

1. What’s your 2nd favourite dinosaur?

2. How many pink marshmallows could we fit in your mouth while i tickled you?

 

Nov. 15, 2010 – 9:03pm

3 answers to you strangely fascinating questions:.

 

1. Keith Richards – without a doubt

2. You would only have time to put one in before I would kick you away. I get

violent when people tickle me (especially under my feet, you might risk your

life)

3. I don’t know why there are so many junkies outside Oslo central station. My

guess would be that crappy cities attract crappy people. Hence why I’m here.

 

And why is ‘Norse’ girl your last guess? Obviously I wouldn’t be Swedish!

 

So is it true that all Australians are crocodile hunters?

 

L

 

Nov. 16, 2010 – 10:54am

See, i cant promise that there will never be tickling, especially if you

misbehave in front of company, or become overly cheeky.

I think after time, you will learn to love it…. It will be our little thing that we

do together… I think maybe you have just never been tickled well… it’s a true

 art form.

 

Crocodile hunters… No.   Hunters, definitely. I can & will protect the cave, and

any inhabitants, (you) should any Sabre-tooth tigers, Woolly mammoths or

Tasmanian devils come to the door.

 

Speaking of Tasmania, tell me what you know about it.

 

Nov. 16, 2010 – 8:14pm

Tasmania – well, in Norway we learnt that Tasmania is a make believe island that the

Australian government came up with to prevent kids from misbehaving.

Apparently they told youngsters that they would be sent there if they said ‘crikey’ more

than ten times a day. They even made up this creature, ‘Tasmanian Devil’,

that would make squeaky noises and feast on naughty kids.

 

Fascinating – Australians will believe just about anything.

 

It’s almost as bad as believing that Iceland is a real place. I would never want to be

sent there as a kid and eaten alive by a ‘polar bear’, or whatever they called them,

so I was always on my best behaviour. Luckily I know better now than to believe in

such gibberish.

 

I still believe in Santa though.. but I’m still waiting for that X-box I put on my wish list

last year, so I’m not sure for how much longer.

 

So Mr Fashion Man – do you meet a lot of girls wanting their leg up the industry and do

you say ‘fabulous’ a lot?

 

L

 

Nov. 18, 2010 – 12:45pm

Close……

 

In the early 1800′s Australia became ‘too beautiful’ because of all the dashing manly convicts, and

sexy prostitutes that were sent there at that time.

These people had beautiful sexy children, and over time, Australia became full of heavenly goddesses and masculine alpha males.

 

This caused a problem with the British, who tended to look like this…..

 

Typical British Female

And like this…

 

Typical British Male

 

Thus the British banished all the best looking Australians, to a cold,

unknown place, where Devils screamed in the night, and Tigers wandered

alone….savage hunters mercilessly stalking their prey.

 

The British didn’t expect these people to survive… but they weren’t

counting on one man……

 

Steve Irwin………’s great great grandfather. Barry Irwin. who slayed the

tigers, and kept everyone alive with his nifty survival skills.

 

Then over time, the ‘Tasmanians’ (which in aboriginal means ‘amazing

lover’) colonised, built villages and agreed that they would one day gain

revenge on the British. You can see the result of this revenge until this day, in a

competition we call, ‘Sport’.

 

Fabulous – no.

 

Dopey fashion girls – sometimes.

 

Nov. 22, 2010 – 11:29pm

Wow – that’s definitely a different view on history.. it took

me four days to digest it in fact! The Brits have always been

jealous of your good looks – it must be your tan and survival

instinct.

 

Do all the dopey fashion girls buy your fabulous stories?

 

Nov. 24, 2010 – 6:04pm

Rubbish…. i was expecting some more banter. but you let me down.

 

Now you need to make it up to me, by taking me out, being on your best behavior…. Sit across from me, nice

conversation…. no trying to seduce me,

and no trying to kiss me at the end of the night. Also pay for the drinks and tell me i look pretty.

 

All the girls i work with are mostly eastern European, with little or no English. also most of them are chain

smokers…. So no witty conversation and bad breath, usually not a winner.

 

I’m off to Dublin tomorrow for 5 days, but next week…. put it in your diary.

 

Big Toe and ‘L’ hit the town.

 

I bring myself, smelling nice.

 

You bring a piece of string, smiles, excitement and wear something sparkly, so i don’t lose attention.

 

Big Toe

 

Nov. 25, 2010 – 10:47pm

Sure, I can bring smiles, excitement and something bling bling for you to focus your attention at. As long as

you entertain me with your obscure stories about Tasmania.

 

And I’m always on my best behaviour.

 

Have fun in Dublin and let me know when you’re ready to hit the down.. and I’ll check my busy schedule (I

like to make myself sound important).

 

Jane

 

Now, when i met the girl, we had zero chemistry, and it just didnt work….  we remain friends to this day.

Eye fucking in Tallinn

Here’s an infield from a shop set in Tallinn.

The initial approach was a set in a souvenir shop in Old Town Tallinn, on the 3^rd day of the Retreat.

This is very different from my usual style.  The night previous we had been working on rapid escalation and eye contact with the students, as most of the clubs were too loud to run my usual attraction game, which is all talking, cocky funny and future projections.  Usually not showing any sexual interest until ioi’s are received.

The night previous was a good night, with a few successful hookups. So the following day Krauser and I were working on raw masculine intent. eye fucking, and K had been explaining Hypnotic Scanning.

I approached this girl and didn’t break eye contact once.  The video you are about to watch is from the 2^nd time I visited her at work, on the initial visit it was much of the same thing, but she gave me her email address for MSN chat.  She wouldn’t give me her number.

This visit was a few days after the initial approach.  When I approached her on day 2 she was grinning like a Cheshire cat, so all I needed to do was more of the same, masculine intent, and no breaking eye contact, under any circumstances.

I’ve never done a set like this before, I’ve never showed so much interest.. I had decided that i wasnt going to take no for an answer, and i would plough until i got her…. I’m sure I make a few mistakes here, but it got the job done.  We chatted on MSN and organised a meetup on Saturday night, to a local nightclub.  She gives me her number over chat and we organise logistics over text.

Saturday night arrives, and Im on a date with my ‘9’ ‘Cosmetic shop girl’ and 2 of her friends.  I get the call from Amber and tell the 3 set ill see them later on.  I meet Amber girl and one of her friends.

Unfortunately Logistics didnt pan out my way, she invited me to come to a loud, dancey nightclub with her.  She was really excited when i met her, I told her that i would catch up with K and meet her over there….

Then i started to think about the frame, and it wasnt right… she’s a hired gun, gogo dancer.  Her state was really high when i met her and she just kept on telling me she wanted to dance.

If i followed her to the club, i would just haemorrhage value.  Standing around, drink in hand while she dances all night… add the fact that her english wasnt as great as most girls in Tallinn….

I figured a stronger frame was to tell her im on my way, then never show…. Then collect her soul over facebook over the next few months…..

Power of state

The first guy that taught me anything about picking up women was a guy called Diamond… he taught the opening lecture at the RSG bootcamp. (incidentally the same lecture than i now deliver to students on the Friday night)

One of the things he said was..

What determines success with picking up? It’s Simple

State (being in the moment) + fundamental knowledge of pickup = getting laid…

So that in mind, ill pass over to a student from a couple of weeks ago… Introducing,

LondonSky.

I was feeling tired and things hadn’t been going too well the last couple of weeks with game. I must of been in about 20 sets, got 5 face books or emails and a couple of numbers but they’ve all come to nothing. Krauser says I lack intent as I tell him I’m not feeling it today, any way what does he know , I’ve seen the potato heads he ends up with, a different one every week. What happens next just goes to show perseverance is the key. No matter what anyone says, it’s a numbers game. Hard work and more than sometimes can be disappointing.

We were just about to go home after a long day where I failed to open hook all but one set who was American and so probably just being polite.

Burto was with me , we saw a tall elegant figure wander off up the road. I hadn’t see the boat race but thought I’d give it a go anyway, or rather Burto pushed me so hard on the back that I ended up walking fast towards her and that’s it, I knew I was gonna approach. She turned and walked up  along steep set of stairs, I had to run to catch up with her. Got to the top, did the normal opener

“hey I won’t keep you a minute, I just saw you down there and thought I had to come tell you , your absolutely stunning.”

she couldn’t believe it and went a bit coy and her response was something like

“oh thank you”

We were both out of breath from getting up the stairs which lead to a bit of a strange conversation

Me “let me guess where you’re from, mmm id say eastern Europe somewhere?”

Her “no Essex”

Me- totally couldn’t believe it. She’s at least a 9 and she’s British, ok from Essex but so what that’s what I’m after British girls “ah my dad lives in Essex blah blah “ boring shit

Then we have a right good moan about eastern Europeans , as she works for a model agency and my business is in Latvia.

She’s gonna be late for her train so I get her face book, name surname  , I think right that will take me years to find her with a name like that so go for the number close and get that too . I leave her and can’t believe my luck. My state goes way up, we go to jewel bar which neither of us like much but I number close an American student , but she sees the last name and number from the last sex in notes on my I phone and back off!

I go home and think about it and have a sneaky suspicion the nine I number closed was planted there by RSG just to make me feel better the day hadn’t been so good!

 

So even on a shit day….we all have them.. Glory is just one more approach away.

Ps.  ill stand behind his rating of the girl… she was absolutely stunning, a high 8, low 9 any day of the week.

Pps. Love the way she cant stand still during the initial stages.. can anyone say ‘Gina tingle’ ?